There is always balance in your life. Nothing in the Universe really disappears. Nothing is lost, it is just transformed.
You can keep that in mind whenever you feel you have lost something. You can never loose anything or anyone. First of all we do not own anything in the first place. The only thing that is real in your life is your soul and that, you will never loose.
Have you noticed that whenever something flows away from your life something else flows in? Whenever you loose someone, somebody new appears. So, all we have to do when we think we lost something, is try to figure out what we’ve gained.
When the fall comes, the trees never cry over the lost green leaves. They trust the wizdom of nature to receive new ones in the spring.
Death is necessary in order for new life to be possible. We need to release the old to make room for the new.
There is never a situation or an experience so bad that you cannot find any positive aspect of it. Think back to your life and make a list of all the so called “bad experiences” and see if you can find any positive things that resulted out of that experience. You will be surprised to see that there’s always a few. Sometimes, quite major changes in our life were the result of such a “bad” experience. Changes that in the end, made our life turn into a positive, new direction.
All the things that happened in our life, good or bad, are part of us; these are the things that made us who we are. We have learned and grown with each experience.
Not understanding why this happened to us, asking what we have done to deserve this are useless ways of consuming ourselves. We have to accept each experience that comes into our lives and see what is to learn from it. We can ask ourselves what kind of thoughts we may be thinking to cause this. What is the lesson in this and what can we change in our thinking habits to improve our life experience.
So whenever you’re sad, or you had a bad experience that you don’t understand, you can use a reminder to remember that all things happen for a reason, and even if you don’t see the meaning of it now, all things happen for your greater good. Ask yourself what are the positive aspects, what is there to learn from this and what habit of thought you need to release from your mind. And the answers will come to you!
This way there’s nothing but learning and enjoying each moment of our precious life!